Don’t Beg Anyone To Stay

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you. You that hate how love makes you very naive. You that is still remembering the past years, when you would do anything for him or her to stay in your life. You that will hurt your own pride just to stay in a relationship. You that wouldn’t mind putting your life through hell just to be in love. You that doesn’t know how to forget the one that hurt you most. You that’s drowning in a sea full of tears because of the mess you are in. You whose heart was broken into a thousand pieces after they left. This letter is for you.

The world is too beautiful for you to allow your situation or experiences keep you sad instead of enjoying what life brings your way. You must realise that people change, love hurts, friends leave, things go wrong but life goes on. It is during the worst times of your life that you will get to see the true colors of the people who say they care for you.

Be proud of yourself, for how far you have come, for anything that has made you happy. Be honest with yourself, love the vulnerabilities in you. Don’t compare your life’s journey with anyone else’s. Your journey is your journey. Just because something good ends, doesn’t mean something better won’t come along.

It’s better to be alone than to be with someone who can’t see who you are.

Today, if you are searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror. It’s okay for you to be kind to yourself. It’s okay to be wrong. It’s okay for life not to be fair sometimes. It’s okay to practice self care. It’s okay to tend to your tenderness. Most importantly, it’s okay to move on even if the people you want the most are the ones you need to let go of.

Irrespective of how you feel right now, dare to love again because there is someone who will always be by your side, who will always love you, always wants you, and always cares about you no matter what. But if that someone doesn’t value you, they deserve to lose you. it’s that simple. It’s better to be alone than to be with someone who can’t see who you are. Stop loving people more than your heart can bear because love hurts and you are not Jesus Christ. Jesus has already died for the one you are about to kill yourself for. Give people time. Stop running towards the people you know can’t give you what you want and deserve. Give people space. Don’t beg anyone to stay. Let them roam. What’s meant for you will always be yours.

Be blessed!

In Him,
~Ali Papa.

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