Stop Breaking Your Heart 

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that is lonely at heart. You that is emotionally drained and messed up. You that found yourself saying, “I was foolish. I was lying to myself.” You that no longer know if you wish to drown yourself in love, vodka or the sea. You that have witnessed things that have changed you forever. This letter is for you, you that have lost your mind trying to understand the one that said they love you.

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Trust God With The Impossible

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that have been wandering through the arduous path of infertility, futile IVF’s, tears, and setbacks. This letter is for you, you that recently experienced loss through miscarriage or failed adoptions. I am not sending you this letter to make things tougher for you than it is already because I know that one of the most difficult and emotionally painful things that couples deal with, especially for women, is the inability to have a child.

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Go Easy On Yourself

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that have been on a long journey filled with shame (huge), humiliation, fear, hate, anger, pain (a lot), regret, insecurities, doubt, shock, tears and sadness amongst other negative emotions. You that is trying so hard to destroy yourself because of the damage done to you by others. This letter is for you also, you that keep getting hurt and feeling that nobody will ever love or care for you because you are too loud, too fat, too ugly, slow, naive, gullible, stupid, lazy, selfish, provocative or demanding.

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Stop Putting Your Self-esteem In The Hands Of Others

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that is stranded somewhere between wanting them back and letting them go. You that’s wondering if you should mend it or let it go. You that is thinking that he or she is probably just the right person but wrong timing, or maybe because you’re just too messed up emotionally to be loved by anyone. This letter is for you, if you think I am writing about you. I hope that you will continue reading?

I know you want me to give you answers as to why people do the things they do. I am sorry to say that you may not get them, at least not in this letter. You won’t get them because life isn’t a TV episode in which everything gets neatly wrapped up with a satisfying conclusion.

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Trust Your Journey, Even When You Do Not Understand It

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that have become so miserable ever since you started comparing yourself to people you think are doing better than you. You that is feeling depressed from comparing yourself to your friends wishing that you had the friendships they have.

This letter is for you, you that is comparing your Chapter 1 to someone else’s Chapter 20. You that is comparing your beginning to someone else’s middle. You that is trying to be someone that you’re not.

You that stumbled on this letter, I want you to know that this is a long letter, but I wish you would read it to the end. I know how much you hate long letters, and how pressed you are for your time but unfortunately I don’t know of any other way of telling you to stop comparing yourself with others.

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You Can’t Fix Something That Wants To Stay Broken

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you. You that loved too much and broke your own heart trying to please everyone. You that keep trying so desperately to fix others, but forgetting to fix yourself. You that keep praying for the one you love and forgetting to fix yourself. This letter is for you, you that’s not contented because you’re too busy fixing others to the point that you are forgetting to fix yourself.

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Life and Things Happen

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that is wishing you could go back to the day you met the one in your life and be able to turn around and walk away. This letter is for you, you that’s wishing you could go back in time to tell yourself never to fall in love with the wrong person again. This letter is for you, you that is wishing you could go back in time and take out all the mistakes that you’ve made out of your life.

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