You Are Not Your Infertility

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that is almost, always the only one without a child everywhere you go. You that the first question you are asked everywhere you go is, how many children you have. You that is walking the hard path of infertility and have gone through several IVF’s without success but still shows up to every baby shower for your friends. You that have lost your dignity after having too many sessions with strangers heads between your legs. This letter is for you, you that often watch your friends have a baby shower and not get invited because they were worried about how you would react.

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Trust God With The Impossible

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that have been wandering through the arduous path of infertility, futile IVF’s, tears, and setbacks. This letter is for you, you that recently experienced loss through miscarriage or failed adoptions. I am not sending you this letter to make things tougher for you than it is already because I know that one of the most difficult and emotionally painful things that couples deal with, especially for women, is the inability to have a child.

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