Stop Looking For Another Version Of You

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that haven’t been on a date in a long time. You that is asking yourself daily if something is wrong with you. You that is forever wondering how that all your friends were able to stay happy in long term relationships and you are not. You that’s trying to figure out where it all went wrong. You that doesn’t have a social life anymore. You that is 40 and always feeling like you are 60. This letter is for you, you that don’t know why you think you are unlovable.

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You’re Not Meant For A Sissy

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that was left and abandoned because they felt there was nothing left in you. You that is almost choking to death on the thought of them being with someone else. You that is feeling like you are going to die every time it dawns on you that you are never going to have him or her back in your life again. You that have become your own blanket and your blanket has become you.

This letter is for you, you that is thinking that his or her heart may not have any space for you again. You that is still wondering how they can easily let go of someone they said they love the most. You that is making excuses and playing the victim card for the one that left you for another person. You that have come to realize that getting no message from me the one you love is also a message. You whose heart gets heavier day and night looking for how to get your ex back into your life.

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You’re Not Your Past!

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that’s stuck in one way, shape, or form with an ex or somebody or something from your past. You that is hiding from an ex forgetting that they are in your past, not your future. You that is hurting from having someone in your heart, but can’t have them in your arms. This letter is for you, you that is depressed because you are living in the past.

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You Deserve The Love You Keep Trying To Give

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that is being ignored because you don’t fit in. You that’s being ignored because of something you know nothing about, you that is being ignored because you don’t know anyone and have no one to help. This letter is for you, you that have been ignored as if you were dead, as if you were a broken pot and you that’s tired of putting up with being ignored or shunned, spat at, and berated by those you once called your own or someone who means the world to you. If you think you would be the most popular in the universe if being ignored meant so, then this letter is for you.

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Be At Peace With Yourself

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you, you that’s feeling alone, struggling emotionally, at war with yourself, and at the edge of giving up. This letter is for you, you that have been at war with yourself to the point where you are now traumatized, exhausted, questioning your purpose, future and your faith. It is my desire that when you are done reading this letter, you will find what I found when I was in your shoes — that through God’s faithfulness to His own promises, He alone can bring you healing through vistas of hope.

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There Is No Shame In Divorce

Dear Someone,

This letter is for you. You that’s asking what’s the opposite of happiness since that’s all you can feel right now. You that has refused to walk away from a relationship that’s certain to kill you. You that was threatened with a knife and left with bruises the other day. You whose ONLY crime was getting married to a devil in a wife or a husband. You that’s afraid to walk away from a relationship that weighs you down instead of lifting you up. You that’s in a relationship that’s making you feel bad about being you.

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